Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Pre-party cleanup


Tonight is Terry's Birthday Bash at Partners Ultra Lounge and we are expecting friends from out of town to attend, so I was put on clean up duty....even though I hate to clean. The funny part is once you get started cleaning....your mind goes into a zone and you find yourself dancing to the music playing in the background and before you know it....your done.

WTFE


Sometimes we just have to say "WTFE." I get pissed that people don't realize that you're mad and still act like everything is fine. Though, in your mind....you can't understand why they can't figure this sh#T out!

Monday, June 28, 2010

Terry's Birthday Bash


Everyone is welcome to celebrate Terry's Hotlanta Birthday Bash Wednesday June 30th at 9pm at Partners Ultra Lounge in Portage,Michigan.

Sunday, June 27, 2010

Longtime no see


Today I received a message on facebook from my friend Robin who had moved away years ago. After a few moments of chatting online Robin wanted to chat on the phone. The sound of her voice, made me feel like she was right next door. We talked and laughed about past experiences and long forgotten jokes....it was fun. Hopefully we wont let time pass us by before we chat again...Life's too short.

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

6 Degrees of seperation


Today on the drive home from work,my coworker/roommate pointed at a house along route and said that the person who lives in that house is Donny's Uncle Robert. Donny is another roommate of mine, who had just moved in about a month ago. The odd part of this story was that my cousin Teresa married into a family who was also related to Donny's uncle Robert...which would make Donny, not only my roommate but also a distant relative of mine. All I could say was...WOW!

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Be yourself


Partners Lounge in Portage has the best atmosphere I have ever experienced. The bar is nicely decorated with a modern motif and the clientele is a great mixture of nonjudgmental people who just want to have a good time. I highly recommend this place to just "Be Yourself."

Monday, June 21, 2010

After Bar Party


Last night,a group of us decided to walk down to the local bar to have a few drinks. After slamming several shots and chugging from whatever pitcher was on the table,we began to draw a crowd around us. The next thing I know there was a convoy of cars following us to my one bedroom apartment for an unexpected after bar party. I explained to everyone that we didn't have much seating but to make themselves comfortable. The following morning I stumbled out of bed and headed towards the kitchen for something to drink, only to find that all the glasses had been used up from the night before. So I ended up drinking diet sprite out of a wine glass.
It was all worth it though,because we made some new friends and we all had a good time.

Sunday, June 20, 2010

Happy Centennial Fathers Day




Dear Dad,
For all those times I left it unsaid...Thank you.
Thanks for being there for me...For showing me the way...
For being patient with me even when I made it difficult for you...
For believing in me & encouraging me to dream...
And being such an inspiring presence in my life.

Saturday, June 19, 2010

Unexpected Changes


For my blog today,I'm going to speak about the unexpected. Sometimes it can be good or bad....but it will always happen. What matters is how we interpret the results. It's easy to pat someone on the back and say..."Oh will be alright." Or that..."Everything happens for a reason." The truth of the matter is....life has no set rules....some days are bad and some days are unbelievably great!
It's up to us, which one we want to focus on....whether we want to focus on the negative or the positive. I choose the positive.

Thursday, June 17, 2010

First impressions


After I cashed my paycheck,I decided to invest in a new outfit. I needed something to wear to an interview, since most of my clothes are either stained from work or don't fit me anymore. Thankfully it didn't take long to find what I wanted,so I was able to get out of the store quickly and get home to my comfortable bed and remote control. I didn't even take the time to try the clothes on to see if they fit properly. Oh well..I still have the receipt.

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Sunday, June 13, 2010

Diva Show at the Casino


Drag show at the Blue Chip casino.

Happy Pride


We had a Blast all day. Went to Pride, then drove to the Blue Chip Casino to watch a Las Vegas Diva show and then topped the night off by going to Partners bar and danced our asses off till they closed.

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Not without my daughter


"Not without my daughter" is a true story about a womans courage and determination to regain custody of her daughter,while dealing with the laws of a foreign country.
I love this story so much and recommend it to everyone.

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Dear God


Without going into too much personal detail,I wanted to share a moment in my life when I doubted God. I was sitting in my apartment when I received a call on my cellphone. I then faced with a dilemma that I wasn't quite sure how to solve. My mind raced with several solutions I could try...but none of them really answered every issue. My worry followed me into the shower as I got ready for work,I took a moment to pray for an answer. Just then I realized that so many time in my life I have been faced with one problem after another...and each and every time God saw me through the tough times. So what was I worried about? This was just another one of those times. I just needed to let go and let God take over...and trust him...so I did. Later that same day I received another call from the same person and was pleasantly surprised to find out that the problem had been solve...everything was going to be okay. I just looked to the sky and smiled...and said Thank you.

Monday, June 7, 2010

Knock,Knock...who's there?


For the past three days,I've been having the same annoying dream of someone knocking on the door. At first I thought it was just a couple pranksters in the building,but that theory was challenged when I woke up from a deep sleep and ran to the front door to answer the knock....and Terry who was working on the computer at the time, questioned me as to what I was doing. I told him about the dreams that I have been having and that I thought I had heard it again just then. He said he hadn't heard a thing, so I know it's just a reoccurring dream...but why? What does it mean?

Sunday, June 6, 2010

Message to Men

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Tornado warning


I had to work last night and then the plant manager announced a tornado warning and demanded we shutdown all machines and head for the safety area. When the power went out, so did the air conditioning...and for a person like myself who is claustrophobic, it isn't fun being crammed into a bathroom with a bunch of sweaty factory workers and no air circulating. I'd rather take my chances with the tornado.

Saturday, June 5, 2010

What if?


If you live your life by thinking what could happen, you won't be living your life at all.

Friday, June 4, 2010

Live now


You can't take it with you....so you might as well enjoy life while you can.

Thursday, June 3, 2010

Be yourself


Today I’d like to talk about relationships and how we tend to take our partner for granted or them us. Over the past few weeks, I have been faced with issues involving troubles in relationships. Patiently I would listen to the he said, she said…not knowing how to respond, without sounding condescending. But the one common denominator in most of the complaint’s, was the loss of one’s self. We try so hard to make a relationship work that we lose touch of who we are in the process. We try so hard to make our partner happy or try to avoid an argument that we forget or ignore our own needs. Eventually our friends and family begin to distance themselves from us, and we find ourselves alone outside of the person we are trying to please.
As selfish as it may sound, we need to make ourselves happy first before we can be any part of someone else’s life. If we look to others to bring us joy, then we are taking the risk of losing that joy if that person decides to find happiness elsewhere.

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

No smoking gun


Today on MLIVE.COM I read an article about no smoking in public. As a non-smoker myself,one would think that I'd be in favor of this law passing,but I'm not! I can understand the public not wanting to smell another persons smoke while their eating dinner with the family or some idiot smoking at a gas pump...but when the law starts interfering on our right to smoke,even outdoors,when it effects no one but the person smoking....I have a problem with that.
Sometimes the people who fight for a cause,never know when to stop...especially when they've tasted the blood of victory.



New law: 'No smoking in public'
By Deborah J Cook
April 12, 2010, 2:00PM
When the Ron M. Davis smoke-free air law goes into effect May 1, smoking in public becomes a costly choice.

Light up anywhere but a cigar bar, tobacco shop, home office, commercial truck or motor vehicle, or an exempted casino, and face a $100 fine the first time and $500 every time after that.

Tobacco Free Partners advocated for the bill, which makes Michigan the 38th state to ban smoking in public. TFP, which offers services in Zeeland, Holland and Grand Rapids, notes that California, a state that has long been smoke-free, has the lowest lung-cancer rate in the U.S. They offer free smoking-cessation programs and free nicotine replacement to help smokers kick the habit.

Hector Amaya, a recent graduate of the six-week Tobacco Free for Good, described the program as “a little kick they give you to start quitting. I got it in my mind that there’re not going to be (any) more cigarettes.”

The most effective way to quit smoking, according to the American Heart Association, is a three-pronged approach of medication, counseling and social support. Pharmacotherapy, such as nicotine gum, patches, and inhalers, increase the likelihood of quitting. Add phone counseling, and your chances improve 20 percent. Group therapy improves the odds 30 percent, and face-to-face intervention 70 percent.

Jan Levering, a registered nurse who’s been smoke-free for 18 years, says kicking the habit required determination and willingness to make lifelong changes. For her, that meant no more coffee or hanging out in bars, and finding new friends and activities to replace those that triggered the smoking response.

“A lot of the responsibility for maintaining your newfound (non-smoking) status is to hold yourself accountable to change your behaviors and your trigger associations,” she says. “No support group will do that for you.”

Having tried to quit several times, Levering asked her doctor for a prescription for the patch. “I couldn’t stand another failure,” she says. “I held the prescription in my pocket for six months before I was truly ready to give it my best shot.”

Frank, a 50-year smoker who asked that his last name not be used, says face-to-face help was hard to find. “I was on the phone one day for four hours. All they would say is they would send me a pamphlet in the mail,” he says. He eventually joined Nicotine Anonymous,
a 12-step program.

While the once-a-week meetings are less frequent than he prefers, he’s found kindred spirits to encourage him.

“I need to go in and talk to somebody who’s going through the same angst and anxiety,” he says. “I’m probably going to have to battle this one for the rest of my life.”